Women to me are like cats. Mystical in nature. Being a gay man I don't chase women. At 61 I don't chase men either. I have been in a monogamous relationship with the same man for over three years and I plan to keep it that way. I love him and I never deny him sex. He is 18 years younger than I am. The dating advice is comical as hell. Most of the time you find a relationship when you aren't looking for one.