Life is what you make it. You can have good or bad life. I am the type of person that will give you the shirt off of my back. My best friend died six years ago. He left behind a 12-year-old son and his common law wife. A lot of times by the middle of the month she is broke, so I surprise her with groceries. Life to me is caring for others, loving others and forgiving those who have wronged you.